The Best Laid Plans (again)

​The best laid schemes o’ Mice an’ Men 
Gang aft agley,

An’ lea’e us nought but grief an’ pain,

  For promis’d joy! 

From Robert Burns To a Mouse 

Source:The Poetry Foundation 

This poem was most famously used by John Steinbeck in the title of his book  Of Mice and Men. The modern version of this quote is The best laid plans of mice and men will often go awry.

Well both Robert Burns’ version and the modern version of that quote fits my Patient Fellows experience for the ALS/MND International Symposium in Boston. It was all planned as a great trip with visits with relatives and dinner with the Patient Fellows who I have gotten to know in conference calls and emails and social media, and also a water workout with the amazing ALS athlete Andrea Peet. The day before we were supposed to fly to Boston, my husband, Stan, got a high fever and ended up in the Emergency Room with severe sepsis. So obviously we had to cancel our trip. Septic shock is life threatening and we got Stan to the hospital just in time, thanks to good friends I was able to text and who came right over and took over.  They called 911 and helped me get Stan’s bipap ready to take with us.

He was in the hospital for a week and it shook me to the core that he almost died. And it was hard on our son getting ready for Junior year final exams.

Stan survived thanks to antibiotics. And “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” is usually true. However, it is his medications for his Sarcoidosis that are making him susceptible to infections. Long term prednisone use weakens the skin and his wounds don’t heal without intervention. Unfortunately he will now have to stop taking Humira, which was our best hope for getting him off prednisone, and that is terribly disappointing.

But back to the Patient Fellows experience. Through the ALS/MND International Symposium meeting app on my phone, another woman who has the C9orf72 gene mutation messaged me. When I told her I had to cancel she agreed to send me updates throughout the conference. She loves science and loves to write, so her updates were great and I will be able to share her insights. Also, one of the patient fellow committee members will be sending me notes on some of the sessions I wanted to attend. So I will be able to do a blog about the meeting without having been there.

For the people who contacted me with comments for researchers, I was able to forward them to one of the Patient Fellows group members. So hopefully I will be able to address your concerns.

I was disappointed to not visit Aunt Candy and Uncle Bill, nor my godmother Alice, nor my cousin Len. I was really looking forward to seeing them.

However I also got antibiotics for a sinus infection this week, and I got handicap license plates due to my shortness of breath and the progressive nature of my disease. That will be a big help with my shortness of breath and carrying my portable cough assist and suction.

It was difficult single parenting my 17-year-old while Stan was in the hospital. But wonderful friends brought food for Andy and Erika came and stayed one night and my dad ran errands for me.

I started Round three of Radicava on Friday and will finish this round in Las Vegas on Christmas Eve, where we will spend Christmas with Stan’s dad and step mom.I am still able to care for my houseplants and my jade plant is blooming! That makes me happy.

We had a happy early Christmas celebration with my dad and Anita Friday night and that also made me happy.

We are blessed with great friends and great family. Happy Holidays to all, and especially all people with ALS and their families.

Through the holidays I will plan a blog post every other Monday, so my next post will be New Years Day. Here’s to breakthroughs in ALS in 2018.

I will end with another Robert Burns poem.

Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And never brought to mind?
Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And auld lang syne?

For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne,
We’ll tak a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

And surely ye’ll be your pint-stowp,
And surely I’ll be mine!
And we’ll tak a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne,
We’ll tak a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

We twa hae run about the braes,
And pu’d the gowans fine;
But we’ve wandered mony a weary fit
Sin’ auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne,
We’ll tak a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

We twa hae paidled i’ the burn,
Frae morning sun till dine;
But seas between us braid hae roared
Sin’ auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne,
We’ll tak a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

And there’s a hand, my trusty fiere,
And gie’s a hand o’ thine!
And we’ll tak a right guid-willie waught
For auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne,
We’ll tak a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

Auld Lang Syne a Christmas & New year poem by Robert Burns
Source: https://m.carols.org.uk/auld_lang_syne_burns.htm

5 thoughts on “The Best Laid Plans (again)

  1. Oh, Meg, how frightening for you and Stan! So sorry to hear this, that you missed the conference and missed seeing family and friends. Have a wonderful holiday with family . We are sending love and hugs your way for continued strength.
    Much love, Salli

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  2. That is so scary what happened to Stan! We’re glad he is feeling better. And such a bummer that you had to forgo your trip to Boston! I’m glad you had such good support during this tenuous time. I only wish we could be closer to help. We do hope to see you for at least a short visit when we are in Reno for 2 to 3 nights around the time you leave for your visit to Jonika in Hawaii.
    Your jade plant is amazing! I don’t remember ever seeing a jade flower! I have Mom’s African violet plants and they likewise make me happy when they are in bloom, which is almost constantly for the last several months!
    Our big Hanukkah party was fantastic, with over 100 guests Saturday night! Thank you for your good wishes and gifts which we will open this evening or tomorrow, the final nights of the holiday.
    Love from your sister Catherine

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